The voice of Pollachi young girls is roaring in my ears. I am unable to sleep since i am also a mother of two daughters.
My suggestion to the parents of girls, from childhood tell them about their plus. Never lower their self confidence while scolding them. "I am also a better human" this is what we have to sow in them strongly.
Because when a boy who is handsome or rich or very well educated apraise her she gets self confidence without knowing they are fake. That pulls her into a great disaster.
With a false idea that they should not loose a rare person they yield little by little and in the end they loose the wholesome and then they understand what a rascal he is.
Normally girls long for what they don't get at home. From childhood we should teach them getting everything we desire is not possible and we should be happy with what we get.
Then a doubt may rise is it not necessary for male children. Normally in our country being a male itself gives them more self confidence. But some boys too are cheated by beautiful or rich or well occupied ladies thinking that they are an asset to them.
There are exemptions in all rules.
The pathetic truth in both cheated boys and girls is that they are poor. Take care of girl children dears.